Relationship And Happiness

Nov 15, 2010 by Pia

Be Happy and Successful With Family And Your Partner Using Your Amazing Power

Everybody wants to be happy, including yourself and your closest family and friends. As a parent or in a relationship you certainly normally would have a genuine wish to see your closest succeed and have an amazing and great life. Not only because you are a good person, but certainly also because their well-being affects your own daily life.

Happiness every day is what we all want. Surprisingly it is easy to forget, that it always requires some actions from us to obtain this daily and lasting happiness. Whether we are parents or part of a relationship, what happens in either area affects everything in and around us. The thoughts and solutions we come up with in conflict situations decide the happiness created.

Have you until now let life lead you, then you need to take charge and decide how you want to handle what happens in your life.

Making decisions on your premises means that you must know exactly what you want to obtain. Set some boundaries for how far you want to go in different areas and stick to it. Maybe you have decided that you are not going to interfere even if you see one of your loved ones making a big mistake – in your opinion. Are you able to stick to that decision? It is so easy to fall back to being judgmental and let your ego and pride take over. Some close advisers also start making “if only you had..” statements, and that certainly does not help anybody. So stick to the wise choice of being a good support, no matter what.

I have heard many times a family member ask: “why did you do this?” Before anybody have a possibility to answer they keep on, non stop, to answer their own question until they get tired and end their solo-speech with: “Do you ever learn?”

True help for a positive result requires a positive course of action from everybody involved.

There are other ways to help family and relationship situations become great and positive experiences for everybody.

To help your dearest mobilize their amazing inner power and trust the process, is the best you can do to be a co-creator of wonderful results.

Be clear about what you want to achieve and consider which bait can be the catalyst to obtain what you want.

Happiness is more important than anything else. Without joy it is almost impossible to create a full life and with happiness solutions come so much easier.

Sense of humor, remembering all the great achievements when supporting, is the best help you can give. B-rush up on your knowledge from prior mistakes.

Finding solutions is not only a boost for your experience, but it also makes you feel more accomplished and happy.

I remember when I was in my teens and thought about people over thirty. I considered them OLD, of-course they did not understand anything and communicating with them was almost impossible – they were living in another world, I thought. Which is totally right, and it strangely enough goes both ways!

So the thing is, you often need to find solutions with somebody considering you a “Mars” person.

Finding a way to understand each other is imperative.

Having principles will work somewhat, especially if you live up to your principles. If you don’t, using them will not work, unless you yourself are willing to change.

Listening to the one you want to help, being open minded and thinking before speaking are three good things to remember in this situation. it can be really hard not to let judgmental thoughts come out, but for a good result keep smiling.

This can be very stressing.

Like a young woman in a leather mini skirt, bare navel with pierced rings all over will give some people certain ideas about this woman’s character. Those ideas can be right but absolutely also totally wrong. Or a young man with a ponytail, jeans with holes, a shabby t-shirt and worn out sandals. He may to some over thirty seem like the total looser. That could be right, but it could also be totally wrong. And of course it also goes the other way – like experience might have taught people over thirty something useful. It could be wrong, but it could also be totally right.

So the best way to encourage other people around you and create lasting happiness is to be able to look into your own heart, be authentic in your relationship and with your dearest, and remember to nourish your sense of humor and good laughs around you.

About the Author

Want to find out more about how to be successful in creating lasting happiness and happiness in parenthood,then visit Pia Balling’s site to see her new e-book course with Free coaching onThe Perpetual Happiness Machine to go deeper.

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